In Chapter One of Fire Your Excuses, “Blind Spots and Weaknesses,” we write: “Having a weakness is not the same thing as an excuse, not doing anything about it, is! John Wooden said it best, ‘Don’t let what you can’t do keep you from doing what you can.'”

Our challenge is two-fold:  First, to honestly and accurately define our weaknesses. Then, second, to courageously seek out that one thing we can start to do, even this week, to begin the journey of turning that weakness into an emerging strength.

In the clip below, Kevin Gaffney shares about his battle with Multiple Sclerosis, also known as “MS.”  Instead of allowing the challenges that many face with this disease to bring him down, Kevin founded, TEAM CRASH, a bike team that rides annually to raise money to find a cure for MS. Over time, Kevin has turned his weakness into a strength, and in so doing, empowered himself and many others to ride into their illness head on. Kevin is quick to add, “I ride because I can.” And each of us, inspired by his actions, must consider, “How about us?”

Fire Your Age-Related Excuses: [Video] 54-Year-Old Stuns ‘X-Factor’ Judges

Have you been using your age as an excuse not to pursue your “calling,” passion or career?

The truth is some are “winding it down” and others are looking ahead for their next challenge.  What about you?

If you feel like there’s a big song still left in you, find someone your age or older for inspiration who is not being held back by the calendar and model your life after their courage. There are many ways to be 30, 50 even 80 and you get to choose.

 

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Saturday September 14th: Fullerton Barnes & Noble Book Signing-Fire Your Excuses (2-4 p.m.) immediately followed by a Mastermind Dinner.

Author Signing Event and Mastermind Dinner–the details

1. Meet Dr. Bill Dyment and Dr. Marcus Dayhoff, authors of Fire Your Excuses, at our book signing from 2:00-4:00 p.m.

Barnes & Noble Fullerton, Amerige Heights Town Center, 1923 West Malvern Avenue, Fullerton, CA 92833, 714-871-9855

2. Immediately following (at 4:00 p.m.) head over to Souplantation in the same Amerige Heights Town Center plaza and join us for our Mastermind dinner.

Dinner is on you, the FREE coaching question and answer mastermind session is on us!

Why attend?  Do you have a question you would like to ask us for free? Perhaps, you have a personal challenge or business, or book idea you would like assistance getting off the ground. Then, come join us for our coaching mastermind dinner and ask away!  Bring a friend who is ready to change his or her life.

Let us point you in the right direction, hear the experiences of others, and meet new like-minded friends.

Here are the top questions we are asked these days:

  • How can I most rapidly transition into a new career or better job?
  • How can I develop a personal brand, and distinguish myself from everyone else?
  • How can I pursue my goals when I have a job, kids and responsibilities?
  • How can I also write and publish a book?
  • How can I become a paid speaker?
  • How can I permanently change a habit once and for all?
  • How can I motivate my son or daughter?
  • What can I do to earn extra money using the internet?
  • Where can I find the very best free information, mentors, and inspiration to help me make a huge change?

We’ll be there for dinner from 4:00 p.m. to 5:15 p.m. to answer your specific questions.  You can ask us anything we are typically asked as coaches but for free!

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Special Bonus Offer!

Be one of the first three to purchase a book at our Barnes & Noble book signing for you or your friends and receive a free one-hour coaching session, a $150.00 value!

 

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Are you persistent? Do you give up after the first failed attempt? How about after several setbacks or negative comments about you or your idea? Success often comes with a price paved with long hours, hard work and persistence to see the job through. Recent data analysis suggests the average entrepreneur will fail three times before succeeding and has an 18% chance of succeeding on the first try.

Consider how much time it took to invent the light bulb.

“Most of us grew up believing that Thomas Edison invented the light bulb. The truth is, he didn’t. What he did do was invent the first long-lasting light bulb, greatly improving on the work of others, and making it a commercial success. One thing that can be observed in all of the men who helped bring us electricity was their dogged determination. Joseph Wilson Swan was one of Edison’s predecessors and is credited with inventing the world’s first workable electric bulb. Beginning in 1840, he toiled for twenty years until, in 1860, he created and patented the first electric bulb which only burned briefly. Returning to his project in 1875, he achieved a better result—a bulb that burned for thirteen hours. Edison and his assistants tried 6,000 different types of filament before, in 1879, they surpassed Swan’s result. They designed a longer-lasting oxygen-less bulb with a carbon filament that burned fourteen hours. A year later, in 1880, Edison’s team came up with a vastly improved bulb that burned between 1,200 to 1,500 hours, which they took to market. As they say, the rest is history.

We can certainly admire such celebrated determination and spectacular results, but what about you? Would you try anything 6,000 times before you gave up? How about 2,000? How about twenty? What’s the most number of times you have tried anything before you finally succeeded? What did you attempt? How many times did you try?”

Excerpted from Fire Your Excuses.

If you’re in the Orange, CA area this coming Saturday, July 27, please drop by and say, “Hi.” We will be joining 20 other local authors at the beautiful Orange Public Library & History Center for their annual Local Author’s Festival. We’ll be promoting and signing our book, Fire Your Excuses.

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Mark has 355 LinkedIn friends and 453 Facebook friends.  He is an active member of two professional groups, attends church weekly, coaches his son’s soccer team, and gets along well with his colleagues at work. So, when we ask him to name his closest friends, we are a bit surprised by his response.  Mark becomes thoughtful and quiet for a moment. Then he mentions a group of friends he sees a couple of times a month, and eventually names two people he would consider close. Suddenly he is a bit embarrassed.  Despite being focused in many areas of his work and home life, it is clear to him that he has not given his core network much attention or strategy.

Recent studies underscore that the people with whom we surround ourselves have a tremendous influence on who we will become and what we will achieve. Our closest online and face-to-face connections powerfully influence our career success, health, finances, even our charitable involvement and generosity towards others. When we do not give careful attention to choosing those who will influence us the very most, we can unwittingly set ourselves up for a significant, continuing, disadvantage in life.  In one fascinating study, Nicolas Christakis reported that if your friend grows obese, you have a 57% chance of becoming obese yourself during the same time period!

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       Chuck made the decision last year to no longer eat at fast food restaurants. His reward: One loaded burger a month anywhere he chooses. He reports that it was difficult at first as he was always on the road for his job.  But, in a few months, he learned how to prepare some amazing to-go meals at home and cut his food budget in half.  He also dropped 15 lbs.  His wife is now “on board” too. They will use the money they’ve saved ($20/week x 50 weeks x 2 people = $2000) to take a trip to New York City this fall.

       Kathy is fighting a serious chronic illness.  Rather than focus exclusively on her treatment, she writes a

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Hector is a hard-working guy.  Smart, disciplined, and driven, he rarely takes time to grab a coffee, linger over lunch or kill time in the countless ways many of us do. Even his weekends are devoid of the usual “downtime” activities others enjoy-watching the game on a Saturday afternoon, surfing the web, or reading up on the market. Yet, he confesses, he never seems to finish the work he wishes to accomplish. And, his long-range goals of going back to school for his master’s degree and finding a better job are likely never to happen.  Then, there’s his health.  Despite being in near constant motion, he rarely exercises. 

 When we examine Hector’s week, we find that there are just two or three “critical moments” that make the difference between successfully pursuing his   Click Here to Continue Reading

 

The store is located in the Shopping Center immediately behind South Coast Plaza.

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When:
05/04/2013 – 12:00 PM – 3:00 PM

Where:
Barnes & Noble Booksellers
Costa Mesa
Metro Pointe
901 B South Coast Drive Ste 150
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
714-444-0226

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Be one of the first three to purchase a book for you or your friends and receive a free one-hour coaching session, a $150.00 value!

(Note: Contest starts at 12 p.m.)

13.02.13-bookstore-shotDr. Bill and Dr. Marcus are pleased to announce that their book, Fire Your Excuses, is now available at the following Los Angeles and Orange County Barnes & Noble stores:

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